Lillian has grown fond of a lady that lives on the next block but just one house between us. Her name is Gene, she is a real sweet lady that we met last year. When we met her last fall she was so very friendly and wanted us to come back and see her again and so we have. Lillian can see her house from our yard so when all else fails (in trying to get to go somewhere/do something) she says she wants to see Gene, she also wants to stop whenever we walk past etc. Since she has white hair Lillian instantly started calling her grandma Gene which of course thrills Gene even more. We visit her probably a few times a month. Gene is totally crazy about Lillian. She has a great grand daughter Lillians age but she lives far away so I think she uses Lillian as her substitute.
A couple weekends ago Gene turned 100 YEARS OLD. That is so hard to even fathom turning 100 and here she still lives on her own and refuses to do otherwise. She is pretty quick still too, she forgets some day to day things but has details on families, stories about the community and other things down pat. She gets around with a walker and someone comes and does a good portion of her housework for her and of course buys her groceries etc. I enjoy taking a meal down to her whenever we are eating something I think she will like and I used to get scolded for this but finally I won her over using the Bible and telling her it was a commanment to love thy neighbor. Sooooo that finally got me off the hook. Her family comes and stays with her on some weekends and other bring her food too but I dont like it when I open her fridge and see swanson dinners. She always appreciates it and it is fun for me to cook for others, especially someone so easy to please---who eats so little anyway that it is no trouble at all.
Gene's family came down and invited us to an 'open house' as she didnt want a party i.e gifts. I printed out a happy 100th birthday in block letters from the printer and I put in a picture of Lillian so on bottom it said from and then her picture, Lillian colored it and of course Gene loved it and it hung on the cart where everyone got their beverages from etc.
On the day of the party Lillian had a frog she had caught so we built her a 'frog house' since she was trying to keep the dogs from eating the frog--it was a bucket with a piece of screen tied over it. Well of course Lillian refused to be separated from it and had to carry it with her everywhere---including the party. I planned to leave it on the porch but some of the ladies saw it on their way in and thought it was an absolute hoot and assured me it would be "the only one of those she woudl be getting to see today" so in the frog house went to make its rounds at the party---pooor frog.
Then it was back outside for mr.frog while we all ate cake. Gene got a framed large placard and hand written note from the govenor which I thought was really neat. It was probably a good thing we arrived when we did because Gene was up walking around greeting everyone and offering them her chair. I wanted to get a picture of her with Lillian so she was finally willing to oblige us and sit so everyone was giving me the thank you wink. I about had a heart attack when Gene must have decided that havign Lillian stand in front of her wasnt enough and she hoisted all 27lbs of Lillian up onto her lap before any of us realized what she was doing!! It was a very nice party, Gene had all her collected cards up around the living room---well what would fit, she later told me there were over 70 of them from as far away as Japan!
Here is Lillian and her adopted 'Grandma Gene'